Individuals in their mid-20s feeling like they haven't grown up despite societal pressures to settle down, get married, and have stable jobs. This can lead to feelings of isolation and not fitting in with peers.
Pain Points
- Societal pressure to settle down and get married
- Financial instability due to starting in junior positions
- Feeling of isolation due to different lifestyle choices
- Lack of interest in traditional adult responsibilities
- Enjoyment of solitary activities that may not align with societal norms
Yeah. The only time i felt good at something got destroyed . I always feel like a wanna be, I always feel like no one, like i don't have something t to be known for. In everything i do there will be someone in my close people that does it better. Not only skills it could be just pure knowledge. The only time u felt kinda good was recently with a thing u achieved and there was my whole friend group saying that i am "useless ("joking")" and when they did that it was much harder and i only got it with a perfect score because they made it extremely easy. The only Thing thats left is music, which I'm useless at this too and can't even make a song but at least there is noone in my close people that do it at all so yeah, im so useless.
Hello, I’m soon gonna be in my mid 20s, and tbh i don’t care. But the people around me who are my age are getting married and buying apartments (renting), in stable jobs, etc. Whereas me I still feel like I’m 12. A lot of people exaggerate being a manchild. I don’t think I act like a spoilt manchild but I genuinely mean it when I say that I feel not a day older than 12. I guess getting a girlfriend would be cool but I’m honestly not looking to become anyone’s husband anytime soon and ain’t no way i’m wasting a grand a month on rent. I’ll much rather stay at my mum’s place and put that grand a month into ETFs. I’m currently studying and i’m not gonna have a stable well paying job anytime soon either. I have to start in the junior positions. I can’t support a family. I also enjoy spending time by myself and I enjoy weird shit like walking in the rain, going to cinemas alone, going to the countryside alone, and getting an icecream by myself in winter which no wife would ever want to do. I feel like I have to grow up but I don’t want to.